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Agreements for Being in Community

RESPECT

I agree to respect myself, the trainers, and my companion participants.  In regard to the trainers, this means I acknowledge they are here to present "their" experiences, perspectives and understandings of this culture as these pertain to whiteness and racism in the United States. 

RESPONSIBILITY

I agree to take responsibility for myself, my words and my actions during this workshop. I do not generalize, using words such as  "everybody," "all people."  I do talk about "I feel," "I think,"  "my experience is..."

REMAIN

I agree to remain in the room, physically, psychologically and emotionally.  This means I stay present even when I am not comfortable.  I understand this is hard work and I am committed to doing it for the duration of this workshop.

OPENNESS

I agree to remain open to what is being discussed, to what is happening and to new information.

PARTICIPATION

I agree to participate in exercises and to complete the assignments given, including homework to be completed overnight. 

LISTENING

I agree to listen to others with all the gifts I contain within me, neither debating, interrupting, fixing, negating nor telling them "my" story. 

SAFETY

I decide to be safe, knowing no one can guarantee another's safety and  I agree to make it safe for others by maintaining confidentiality. 

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